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Bad Date Idea
The most common first date is a trip to the movies followed by dinner, or vice versa. This type of date is scheduled so much that it seems like the only appropriate thing to do for new couples. However, it happens to be the most boring first date anyone can ever plan. One reason not to watch movies is because your date will not think you are exciting. Everyone wants to meet someone to have fun with and do exciting things with and the movies just don’t cut it.
Another reason not to watch movies on a date is because there is a lack of true intimacy. Sure, you might get to hold hands in the dark, or even snuggle, but that was only attractive in high school. Adults want to hear intellectual conversations and such. They want to know you can hold a conversation with them and stimulate them mentally. If you take your date to a movie, you are pretty much avoiding conversation, which will send them a signal. Even if you both love movies, it really is a better idea to wait until you know each other better before going.
So, choose not to watch movies on your dates. Instead plan something exciting and fun for your date. You can get to know each other and can get down to the business of making a true connection, instead of sitting together in the dark. If you make that true connection, you may even be doing more than sitting together in the dark! |
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